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- Updated: August 31, 2010
Elisabeth Andrade
Sex after pregnancy
More a revised text of the old blog.
Well, my son is almost 30 years now. So long ago I went through this and I do not remember how it went. But it is a problem that lead to very fri shop and I've been researching, talking to people ...
Many men go to the store and say thus: "Since our son was born, my wife and I have no more respect. She will never have .... "
In general, they go to the shop fri looking for magic formulas. to resolve the problem.
And fri shop, as I have said many times, does not sell magic.
So it is very frustrating, the answer is always the same: talk to your partner!
A child's mother consumes too much in the first year of life ... and in the second and third! (Damn, why we keep doing son?)
But anyway ... Nenens change the routine of home and the couple suffers from these changes.
Most women in this period is more fragile and needs a good deal of support from partner. Often we give up careers to live that moment and even the joy of birth, time or other questions arise. Then there's also the problem that the body changes. We fattening and routine imposed by the arrival of the child is not always possible to return to the care of the body.
All this stirs deeply with self-esteem. Incidentally, I remember that my son was born at full World Cup in 82. I was very young and one of the games, my partner scored a personal Paulista go celebrate. And I was there, fresh from a cesarean section. Wow, I was so angry. : /
I think that survive this period depends a lot of people have a cool head and understand that this is a process. And much depends on how well the partner stands. If supported, it actually helps with diapers and bottles, if you know what is happening without charges.
For man it's all a learning yet. He also scares. First he sees the changes and often do not know how to help. Historically been away from this whole process.
Anyway, everything is new and it takes a lot of companionship and lots of laughter to get through one more stage and the relationship will emerge strengthened. It's worth it to invest!
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